Counter Pessimism !!

I see & sense lot of disappointment in young hearts - who have lost their purpose of living even as they have just begun experiencing life first hand.

How can we make life optimistic?

Food for thought - negativity or positivty generates from deep inside you - triggered by a situation , person or a random stuff which may or maynot be remotely imp to your life. In this delicate moment when that trigger is gonna hit you - make your life self centred & be just about you.



below are 3 sweet simple steps - one can employ when counetring stress or negativity



Know the cause ?

Question & question again your mind & ask yourself what is it which is affecting your mind's balance? what is at the heart of all the negative thoughts whirling in your mind

Evaluate the seriousness :

 Is the CAUSE to be taken with serious intention  or is it a fleeting change - meant to last only few days ? If latter best to ignore it. Remember not to waste your time & energy on stupid topics which are worthless - your heart & mind is worth one million billion dollars - dont waste it over cheap tactics, situations.

 Be strong & smile  - prepare to win

Smile can move mountains - my school teacher used to tell us - even in the worst of times when life tries hard to buckle u down - rise up & smile. Gather all your strength & smile with all your heart & face the situation.
Let time be a healer & you be the figher - and with your sheer passion & love for work fight & enjoy the glorious dance of victory !!

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